A guy I named "Blogs"......

So, the first night of signing up, I got a request from someone. Hmmmm.....profile seemed normal (I'd only seen a few at this point...) and pics were ok....didn't get that "OMG...he's hot" but he was decent in the few pics he had posted.

**Note to anyone else on these dating web-sites....make sure there is more then a few pics on there and hopefully they are current pics ;)

We went through the initial question phases pretty quickly....started on a Friday night and within 24 hours later we were already to e-mailing. I was very upfront that I did not want a serious relationship right off the bat and did not want to rush anything. We eventually exchanged phone numbers in later e-mails, said we would talk soon and I then went out with a girl friend that night. Well, I guess "soon" in his dictionary is like an hour later! I got a text from him....ok, maybe not so bad so I replied when I could. We texted a bit and I went about my night.

Sunday morning, and I've now cyberly known him for what 30 hours, I get a text that he wants to go out to dinner that night and that he called in sick for work so he was available. WOW dude......really, call in sick to work?? I was at the beach and he kept pestering me so I finally agreed against my gut feeling.

I walked up to the restaurant (not one I would pick for a first date but whatever at this point....) and he was much shorter and did not look the same as his pics!!! I'm a really short girl, 5'1" to be exact, and he was barely taller then me which is fine, but don't lie about it in your profile....idiot! Oh and the pics were not even a few months old...more like a few years old! So annoying! Within the first 20 seconds I was already annoyed....not good!

Dinner was ok.....conversation was ok, it flowed but I was finding out how weird this guy was! I could not get out quick enough! I made up the excuse that I had to go pick up my Mom to get me out of dinner at the end and then he has the guts to say to me "Well, I can hang out while you go pick up your Mom and then we can hang out after"......I tried so hard to not laugh out loud! I said no thanks, I was tired and wanted to get to bed.

Home I went (I dodged a kiss thank god!!!!!) and I immediately contacted one of my guy friends to fill him in. We signed onto Facebook (FB) to chat....I told my friend that if this crazy guy signed in that I would sign off and call him. I like to friend request someone before I meet them in person to stalk their profiles....you can find a lot of interesting things on there ;) Well what do you know....crazy guy signs on and messages me before I can even blink! He is now questioning why I'm on-line when I said I was going home to bed....really, you are questioning me?? He is getting pushy, more annoying and saying things to make me really un-comfortable! He already wants to set up another date (not happening in my book) and is already treating it like a relationship....this guy has some nerve! His messages in the chat window are getting nasty and mean if I don't reply right away. Mean while.....I'm copying what he is typing me and pasting it into the window of my guy friend that I'm chatting with! And here the name "Blogs" got created!!! Blogs would type so much into that tiny window that I would have to scroll and scroll to find the end of one entry! Really??? Now I'm getting scared.....so I finally tell him point blank that I don't want a serious relationship, not with him or anyone. He gets pissed, blocks me and deletes me as a friend on FB = SWEET!!!!

Blogs wasn't done though.....he won't drop it that easy! The next morning he then texts me this long message apologizing for being rude the night before and that he really wants to be with me. Ok, now it has been about 30 hours since we have cyberly known each other! I do not reply of course.....

Oh Blogs makes another appearance.....he calls me the next day from a blocked number!!! I picked it up since I was expecting a phone call from an HR manager about a job. I could not get off the phone for 20 minutes....it could have been a 3 minute conversation....

me - I'm not interested in you

him - is the physical attraction there more for me then you?

me - yes!

Still, Blogs continued to apologize and I told him that he scared me and he needs to leave me alone! He finally ended it with "Well, when you decide to date call me".......sounds good - CLICK!

I can breathe now....but then I realize that he works for the cell phone provider that I have.....awesome! I checked my bill with a fine tooth comb for any changes and still do.....and god forbid he looked up my address and did something to show that he did.....that would not have been good!

So, my first on-line experience turned into this.....A guy I named "Blogs" and with that I boycotted this on-line site for over a month!! I turned off the matching and didn't even log-in....I was done!!!!