Friday Night Date!

Just following up on the from Friday night with TBD Italian...I really need to come up with a name for him since I have a feeling I will be blogging about him a lot :) So we went and saw a movie before dinner which was fun! He's so sweet and a total romantic! he made reservations at Palm Restaurant which was amazing! We both had filet steaks for dinner....amazing food, fun atmosphere and had a great time! Then we went to the Laker game with one of his work customers (he's in sales). The company he works for has season tickets to the Laker games in the 5th row....incredible to watch a game from that close. It had been a long day so we went home after that. Then on Saturday night he came down and met my family....meeting the family is a big thing especially in Italian families! My younger brother was in town visiting so we went out with him and a few of his friends and had a blast! He has such a great personality and is so easy going :) He makes me smile!!!!

Curious.....always a good laugh!

So Curious messages me on fb to say hello so I say hello back....then he says something confusing...like he hints at things....so I told him to just say it since I don't get it....and this is what he says..... "like I like you, and I suppose I lust for you, but I know it won't work, and that's what confuses me the most" Oh boy!

TBD Italian :)

So...anyone have a good name for TBD Italian?? I'm open for suggestions :)

So, tonight is our Laker Game Date!! We're both so excited! We had dinner last Monday night as planned and had a blast as usual! Spent a little over 2 hours at dinner talking and just enjoying each other. We then walked around after for a bit and then I finally said about 9:00 that I needed to go home and get some sleep....we had met up right after work! This was our third date and we finally kissed...just on the lips but that was good enough for me! He is so sweet, gentle and passionate!!! I love his gentle kisses.....and he always kisses me on the forehead...makes me melt everytime :) We ended up having a quick lunch on Wednesday, which was his actual birthday so I got to give him a birthday kiss :)

So, back to our date today! We're meeting soon to go up to LA early...beat the traffic....and go see a movie first. He already made dinner reservations before the game and it's a surprise....I have no idea where we are going! It's so cute how he plans everything...and so much fun too! After dinner we'll be off to the Laker game....I have a feeling he's going to turn me into a Laker fan....lol. It will be a fun/busy day and night but I'm sure it will fly by with him :)

Have a great weekend everyone!!!

Curious just doesn't get it....

I don't know how to word it any better.....he messaged me this morning saying how he knows that I don't lust over him.....yup! That is true my friend....no lust there for him! Oh then he asked me if I was dating anyone so I said "I've been on a few dates"....haha! Stay tuned for more stories from him....always something!

3 Dates in 1 week....whew!

I figured why not?? I'm not looking for something serious right of the bat so why not go on 3 first dates in 1 week....plus it would make for good blogging ;) It's not something that I would normally do and it's still weird to think about it but it was fun! It sure did make for an exhausting week and trying to keep up with it all...the texting, who wants to go out when, what I've talked about with each guy....lol.

So, the first date was on a Monday night. We'll call him "Eye Doc" since he is an Optometrist. We hadn't planned on meeting that night....been texting over the weekend....and he wanted to go see a movie that night. Not your typical good first date thing to do but I figured why not....lol. We met for coffee before and chatted. Watched the movie and he walked me to my car after...said good night and off we went. Texted that week....kept in touch. But here's the weird thing....so that Saturday he texted me in the afternoon and asked what I was doing. I told him I was busy with a photography client (I do photography on the side....) and then I met up with some friends to grab a quick dinner after. He then asks again what I was doing...so I said going home cause I had a sore throat and then he says "Oh well I was going to invite you over to watch a movie"......really, just be a man and if you wanted to try to make plans then ask up front....don't keep asking what I'm doing and then when I'm busy say you were going to ask me out....I was annoyed. So we still have not met up again....just texting here and there....I let him contact me and see if he actually gets the nerve to ask me out. His birthday is today so "happy birthday eye doc"

Second date was that Friday (had a few days off in between to do other things and catch up on sleep...lol). I'll call this guy"UK boy" since he is from London...which makes for a very nice accent ;) We had tried to meet up the week before and had planned 2 dates before but he got sick and kept canceling on me. We finally met in person and my first thought was OMG...he's soooo short! Now, I'm short, 5'1" and for me to say a guy is short, he is short! I was wearing flats too and he was maybe, maybe 3 inches taller then me?? Usually this is not a big deal for me but it kinda is....lol. Dinner was good.....he talks a lot and I have to really pay attention to understand everything with his accent. Night was good....walked to our cars and off we went from there. We've talked a few times but have not met up again yet. I figured I should at least give them all 2 dates and then decide if I'm really interested. He actually called me today and I still need to call him back....I'll do that when I'm done blogging :)

Third date was Sunday of that week.....can't think of a name for this guy...he is a full blooded Italian so "TBD Italian" for now....lol. We went to dinner...hit it off and before we knew it, it was almost 3 hours later! Both of us being Italian we had a lot to talk about :) He was even cuter in person too....dressed nice and I remember when I first saw him, my first thought was wow! He is very sweet and traditional which is great! We then talked about going to Disneyland since he has a pass as well and went the following Wednesday...he took the day off work :) It was so sweet that he did that....it was a great day and we had a ton of fun....so comfortable. We were a little cuddly but still no kiss.....I made sure no kiss yet. We text all the time and had plans to go out tonight but I wasn't feeling well so we changed plans to dinner this coming Monday. His birthday is Wednesday (what is it with me meeting guys and their birthdays are right around the corner??) so we're celebrating early and then he invited me to the Laker game next Friday already. He's a huge Laker fan so it should be a lot of fun!

I'll keep you posted of what happens....but if I had to pick one right now to date it would definitely be TBD Italian :)

No More.....

As of today, my subscription expired on the premier dating site......not bummed about it actually. There hasn't been anyone that I'm interested in so I haven't been on it really. It's funny how they sent me an e-mail this morning saying today was my last day and to renew now....lol.

So, sticking with the winky site and see what happens from there :)

WOW!

I'm still laughing! So, I was going through the daily matches that the "wink" site sends you and guess who pops up......Apples!!! It gives you little thumbnail pictures and when I first saw the 5 for today I immediately thought....OMG....is that who I think it is?? Sure enough it was! His profile talks about how he's over the games, wants something serious, blah, blah. I had to tell my boss since we always get good laughs over the guys on-line and her response was "Maybe he knows what he wants now"....I couldn't have laughed harder! Since that was the excuse that he gave me was that he doesn't know what he wants....why couldn't he just be honest (like his profile says) and just tell me that it wasn't there for him??

I swear, guys are just flat out idiots sometimes.....well, maybe most of the time ;)

Loser!

So one of my girlfriends who is on the not so premier site sent me a link to this guy's profile and her subject to me was "loser on (not so premier site)". I about died reading his blurb or crap of a profile. I was only going to copy and post part of it but to get the full effect of the crap he wrote I'm going to post all of it :)

Enjoy a good laugh as I did!

Oh, and it still baffles me how you do not click on "SPELL CHECK" before you publish your profile.....one of the most annoying things to me!!!

One last thing to add (and don't forget he is on a dating web-site), he isn't seeking a relationship or any kind of commitment.


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So heres the newest profile I have, I went back and edited the whole thing and trust me when I say Including all the idiotic things that this site offer (In other words idiot people) I had to include it all and make sure it is mentioned so when you don;t take the time to read my profile and send me something stupid it would be an open invitation for me to un-leash my powers of “I don;t give a damn about your tiny ass feelings”.

I AM AN ASS TILL YOU GET TO KNOW ME THEN I AM SWEET.. SO SUCK IT UP I DON;T TRUST EASILY.

A. if you have no idea what you want from me or for yourself, don’t bother messaging me and go look for a consulor to help you figure it out. I am CLEAR. I don;t want a relationship nor kids.
B. some COWARDS on here will send me a message ****ing about my profile then block me or even delet their account, if you do that you might want to grow some balls and face me and see the outcome.
C. my best friend is a girl so if you have a problem with that don’t message me, she has been around longer than you will ever have and she knows me more than you will ever do, so she takes priority.
D. I am not here to hook up, for a Love relationship nor any form of a relationship that is gonna put me in hand cuffs and call me prisoner… I am here for friends…. Now since this might be a bit confusing to some of you on here who barely graduated High School or have not even graduated that so let me say in your terms...YO....I Ain’t Relationship Material....Got me Homie?....
E. If your looking for sex ask me up-front I hate beating around the bushes... Most likely the answer would be let me get to know you first... and Don;t send me naked pictures of you I don;t care about them.
F. I am sick and tired of people thinking that they can chage me, YOU will NOT be able to change me no matter what you do... So what I say here is true to the T... if you choose not to believe it...it’s your own DAMN fault.
G. Do Not start your conversations with pick up lines like these it’s STUPID (I Wish I can add a link to their profiles so you can see them):
1. Roses are red, Bud Lights are blue, When I get drunk I start to like you (Jen).
2. How much does a polar bear weight? Just enough to break the ice (Kathy).
3. You and I should get jerseys, cause we’d make a great team (Megan)
4. Add to the one above...But yours would be better cause your out of my league (Susie).
Don;t use sh*tlike this be normal... OHHH WAIT.... Who am I kidding this site is FAR FAR away from normal.
H. If your picture shows that you have not been off the couch for a while that is a sure hint for you not to email me at all, I have no desire in rolling you up or down a hill.
I. I consider myself honest to no end, I will tell it as it is no matter how much your sensitive feelings are gonna get hurt, someone gonna tell you it.
J. If you have fallen into your Mum’s make up box don;t email me, I find it very scary to be walking around with a female clown.
K. I ma fit so I am looking for a person that can keep up.
L. I am sarcastic suck it up, if you can;t handle it it is not my fault.
M. If you have kids and you say on your profile that they take up alot of your time.. then why are you on here? and why are you gonna waste my time? cause most Single Mum’s I know they want a Baby daddy and I ain;t it.
More to come I am sure

If you think I have a horrible writing style, then you are right but think about this, I speak 3 different languages that many of you think that they are too hard for your little brain to comprehend, and english is the last one of them so Hmmm.... I am all-ready ahead of you in the education game, Your falling behind all-ready.

Of course....

Why is it that guys I'm not particularly attracted to contact me and then their friends are hot??

Always happens.

The Science of Single...

So I just started reading this book called "The Science of Single".....It's basically about this women in her early 30's and her dating adventures. I'm still at the beginning but I'll let you know if there is anything interesting. But how appropriate.....

Randoms.....

Randoms....is that even a word? It is now for me :) Just a few updates and thoughts in this crazy dating world or lack of it by my choice. No more of the not so premier dating site....I've decided that site has not been working in my favor....lol. The premier dating site expires in a week or so and I've decided I'm not renewing that one either - not much going on there and the guys are just odd. I did join a new one for a test run and after that no more on-line sites....haha! This one you can send 'winks' to each other and messages......some guys are so clueless! Oh and it's hilarious to see the same guys on there as well as on the not so premier site.....and of course they contact you on both. I mean really, if I didn't reply to you on the other site what makes you think I will reply to you on this site? And if you can't remember who you have contacted.....you must be messaging by the hundreds! LOL!

To the dumbass who keeps winking at me.....stop, please stop! If I don't respond and send the "no thanks" get a clue :)